I am hoping that after we settle in a bit, it will be easier.
There is so much to do starting over in a new country! Learning how to shop as the stores, brand names, and products are different. Learning how to drive on the left side of the road and the right side of the car. Mercy, that's been interesting. The first time I tried, I kept turning on the windshield wipers to turn as they were on opposite sides with the turn signals in the States. Intersections are the hardest. By default, I look left first and need to look right. Turning is different too. Think about it.
We are adapting to the noises, smells, and customs as well. The house we are living in is fantastic but only available for two months so we have begun searching for a house. We are borrowing a car from the Rentons until we can get our own.
Getting a bank account and mobile phone contract has been the most difficult. Because of the crime, the government has cracked down on both of these industries. We have had to gather a lot of documents: three month of bank statements, proof of residency in the USA, proof of residency here, including the passport, utility bill, and signature of the landlord (and ours lives in Congo!), personal passport, visitors visa, work contract including proof of income, and a letter from our USA bank stating we are in good standing.
We finally compiled everything and got to the bank yesterday. Now that the account will be opened, we can begin to look for a car. It is amazing how many things are dependent upon each other!
There are a lot of other differences. We call things by different names. Here are a few...
USA - stoplight SA - robot
USA - the trunk SA - the boot (of a car)
USA - "hello" SA - "howzit"
USA - "goodbye" SA - "cheers"
A common expression here is, "shame." It means, too bad. The Pocta family has put a friendly wager on who will say it first. It is tempting.
The one thing we are all finding ourselves doing already is imitating the inflections as we speak. When we speak in the USA, we end most of our sentences with a lower intonation. In SA, they use a lot more intonation "up and down" and end a lot of sentences higher. It is a bit hard to describe. Beth says it is more melodic. It is amazing how quickly you find yourself doing it!
Our bodies are still adjusting to the elevation here (over a mile high), the bacteria in the food and water which is different and can lead to stomach ailment, the seven hour time difference, and the dryer climate. It has only been eight days though. Time will heal.
All in all, we are doing great. Hannah and Maddy are finishing their first week of school. They are adjusting to wearing uniforms and having some different subjects. All of the kids here learn Afrikaans. It is a variation of Dutch that is common here. There are actually twelve official languages here. Many of the teens I have spoken with speak five languages each. The girls are finding themselves ahead in math and behind in science. Maybe I can convince them to write a post of their experience.
I am really eager to write about the ministry and the people here. There is already so much to say. I will try to get another post up this weekend.
HI Dave,
ReplyDeleteThis brings back so many memories of our resettlement to South Africa back in 1986. We had three kids and put them in an Afrikaans (as opposed to English) school. You are so right about the language, getting set up, banking issues! The best advice we had was to have great flexibility; be willing to take things differently than you thought, small things and large! Hopefully the church folks are helping you lots!
Hi Dave and Beth, I have loved reading your posts: I have done the reverse coming from SA to the USA! I still like to use "robot", its shorter than traffic light! and I will never forget the first time I had an oil change here in Mt Prospect and the attendant offered to vacuum the car, I told him to go ahead and vacuum the boot, since the rest of the car was just fine...he looked at me quizzically! and I love the word "shame" its just right for many situations! I am glad to hear the bread is still lovely,and I am looking forward to certain smells and sounds!
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Hi Dave,
ReplyDeleteI am so grateful that all of you arrived safely. I am happy God answers all the prayers for Milo too!!
When JT wakes up, I will show him the pictures of the bugs. He loves bugs!! I will continue to pray for your healthy and safety. I know that you are already impacting so many people for God. I am proud to know all of you. Give my love to everyone. Love Always, Julia Gawron
Pocta Family- We are praying for you.... Sounds like an interesting time of adjustment. I am sure it is both difficult and exciting. We love you guys. Thanks for the great blog. I will be following your adventures, with a small measure of envy :)
ReplyDeleteThanks for doing this. I'm so glad to hear about you guys, your transition and the church over there. It sounds like you are all in good spirits. We will continue to pray for your family and for the church.
ReplyDeleteWe love you guys!
-Julie Breford
Dave and Beth!
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Ben and I love reading your post and we actually just received, yesterday, your card and wedding gift! Thank you so much! (my last apartment held it hostage)-ben thought you sent it from africa and was very impressed!
We are seriously praying for you! But it sounds like you are so positive. PLEASE keep blogging, it is so exciting to read. Also we have campus students graduating soon, they're looking to take the 1 year challenge, I keep telling them, "I have connections in South Africa..." love, Susan "Balsom" Borland
Dave, Beth and girls,
ReplyDeleteI just went back and read all of your posts. I got a little choked up when I read about the day you left as it reminded me so much of the day my sister left for Zambia, but I laughed out loud at the tales of the food, driving and bugs! We have definitely had the same experiences the two times we have been over there. Jay finally grasped driving on the left, I was only allowed to drive on a non paved road leading out of town where you encountered NO traffic. The bugs will definitely take some getting used too...but they have the best yogurt! Anyway, thanks for the updates. We are praying for you all. Tell Hannah that she started something at the Anderson house last summer when she came over with Erica...There has been a lot of Monopoly going on!
Cheers:)
Melissa
So I have finally gotten around to reading your posts. Thank you so much for taking the time to do this, I imagine you guys must be swamped with things to take care of. I enjoy reading your posts, but you know what you need... a reality show! JK. We will be praying for you guys and your work there, and I can't wait to hear all about the SA youth ministry. Give my love to all the ladies.
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